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Ramifications Of Infidelity In Mauritius

Volume 1 - Issue 2, August 2017 Edition
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Author(s)
Nandan Seeboruth
Keywords
infidelity, Mauritian, religious segregation, sexual orientation
Abstract
This study is based upon Infidelity prevailing in the Mauritian Society. It attempts to demonstrate the various factors related to infidelity. Moreover, the study has been carried out with a sample size of 350 to represent the whole population and to provide a rough estimate of the infidelity prevailing here. Thus, it has revealed that there is approximately 40% of unfaithfulness among all couples including those who are married religiously, legally or cohabiting. Likewise, it has been found that infidelity is linked to many secondary factors which contribute towards being treacherous. The main hypothesis revealed that sexual orientation is completely independent of unfaithfulness while religious segregation also does not assume a part in treachery. Although the causes of infidelity are varied and complex some of the causes have been identified. Furthermore, the impacts of infidelity may completely destroy a relationship, but the research has also revealed that some deceived mates chose to suffer in silence rather than remedy the situation. Nevertheless, while sometimes the betraying spouse may not be getting enough from the relationship and at other times the betrayed spouse may not be giving enough which results in treachery. As a result, this leaves the committed partner to feeling devastated, depressed, aggrieved and alone.
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